The HOA Notice That Started Our Move (And Why It Wasn't Really About the HOA)

A client of mine got an HOA letter last spring about a trampoline in her backyard. Nothing dramatic, just a notice that it needed to be moved 6 feet from the fence line. She told me that letter is what finally made her call me, not because of the trampoline itself, but because it was the fourth notice in two years, and something about that one made her stop and think, "we are done living by someone else's rulebook for how our family gets to spend a Saturday."

That's usually how it starts. It's rarely the house itself.

It's not really about square footage

Her family wasn't outgrowing bedrooms. Four bedrooms was still plenty for two kids and a home office. What they'd outgrown was the version of life the house could support. No room for the raised garden beds she'd been pinning to a board for three years. No space for the chickens her son had been asking about since he was 6. A backyard just big enough for a trampoline, and apparently not even quite big enough for that without a letter about it.

The guilt part nobody talks about

She told me something I hear a lot from families in this spot: "This house has been good to us, I feel a little guilty wanting to leave it." I understand that completely. It's not ingratitude. It's just growth. The home did its job for the season it was needed, and now the family's needs have moved past what it can offer. Those two things can both be true at once.

What we actually looked for

We didn't start by searching for "bigger lots" as a filter and calling it done. We talked about what a Saturday morning would look like in the next chapter. Coffee on a patio with actual space around it. A place for the garden. Room for a small coop, since her city's regulations allowed it on properties over a certain lot size, something we checked before getting attached to any specific home. A two-car garage wasn't the ask. Room to eventually add a workshop was.

We found a home on just over a third of an acre in Northwest Las Vegas, no HOA, with a chicken coop the previous owner had already built and was happy to leave behind. Her son named the first hen within a week.

If any of this sounds familiar

Maybe nothing in your life has hit a breaking point yet. Maybe it's just a quiet feeling that your current home doesn't quite fit the family you've become, even though on paper it still checks every box. That feeling is worth paying attention to.

If you're somewhere in that "wouldn't it be nice someday" stage, I'd love to hear what someday looks like for your family. No pressure to do anything with the conversation, just happy to talk it through whenever you're ready.

Jennifer Rodriguez

Homes by JRod

REALTOR® | Military Relocation Professional (MRP®)

VA Loan & Military Relocation Specialist

Northwest Las Vegas Real Estate Expert

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